why?

I really don't understand when people give advices or be the middle man, if things does not go well, he or she would be blamed?



To the passerby, I don't think there is anything wrong just telling both of them to stop being at loggerheads with each other. Why is it you must think that I am trying to be a holy saint or mother of peace for all things? Can you say that what I have done is wrong?



Yes, I may have used harsh words and I know either one of them who reads it is not going to be happy but do you think just sitting back and doing nothing is going to benefit them in any way? I am also very clear that this is none of my business but I am a victim once before and I know if this continues it is going to turn out nasty so why not I just voice out something?



Shirlyn, I no longer hate you or think that you are someone bad. I think you are quite a nice girl actually. It is just that you have really hurt me the last and I just cannot get over it. I know this has us both to blame and now when we are at peace why let history reface again when you start to scold Kelvin on the net? I'm sure you don't want to graduate knowing that you are an enemy to someone right? You might be thinking right now that I am very fake and assuming things. However I want you to know that I am sincere.



You mentioned in your blog, "I sometimes wonder why people try so hard to be a victim", yet if you let matters rest and try to understand why they say these things to you, you may not land yourself with an enemy but a friend.



You mentioned in your blog, "I sometimes wonder why people are getting so worked up. And tense. Over minor events.". I am not getting tense up or worked up. Just feels that all these should end. After all it has to end on day right?



You mentioned in your blog, "I sometimes wonder why people retaliate." You retaliated too didn't you?



You mentioned in your blog, "I sometimes wonder why there are stupid people in this world"I assume you are talking about me but never mind.



You mentioned in your blog, "Sometimes I wonder why people who tries to give advices, but their efforts were in vain." That will depend whether you listen or not.



You mentioned in your blog, "Sometimes I wonder why people like to be the middleman. Of everything." It is not because I am trying to be holy but because I understand Kelvin's feelings.



You mentioned in your blog, "Sometimes I wonder why people just won't give up."If I were to give up, who is to voice out these comments?



I know this might anger you more and might start another war of words. However this time I will not retaliate. Believe it or not. If you would listen then that is good but if you rather think that this post is crap then it is alright with me. After all this between you, Kelvin and maybe even me? One more thing, please don't say that I am trying to be saintly? Cause I swear I am not. Think I'm plastic for all I care. Just want you to know.